Dos and Don'ts for Dealing with Suicide

Dos for Parents

• DO always take suicidal warning signs seriously and respond immediately.
• DO ask kids directly about it and draw them back.
• DO watch your child carefully, if he or she seems depressed and withdrawn.
• DO seek outside help and support for your teen.
• DO educate yourself on childhood and adolescent depressive illnesses and suicide.
• DO assure your child he or she can feel better, that suicidal thoughts are only temporary and that there are people who can help.
• DO know that early intervention is the key to successful treatment for children.
• DO understand that treatment should be a team approach consisting of psychotherapist/ psychiatrist, parents, relatives, etc.

Dos for Teens

• DO take your friend's actions seriously.
• DO encourage your friend to seek professional help.
• DO immediately talk to an adult you trust, if you feel the risk is imminent.
• DO talk with your friend.
• DO ask if the person is thinking about suicide.
• DO listen openly and without judging.

Don'ts for Parents and Teens

• DON'T keep someone's suicidal feelings a secret to protect your relationship. You need help in helping. 
• DON'T lecture on the value of life.
• DON'T dare him or her to do it.
• DON'T act shocked. This will put distance between you. 
• DON'T try to minimize problems or shame a person into changing his or her mind.
• DON'T give up.

If someone you know is planning to take his or her life, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1 (800) 273-TALK (8255).

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